AGE PROVIDED SUPER BOWL DRAMA

Did you know that only 39% of Americans regularly watch football?   If we’re in the other 61% who doesn’t, we’re ashamed  to admit it around this time of year.  Seems like  everyone you know  watches the Super Bowl in February.  It brings some excitement to an otherwise dreary month.  And then there are the parties—the drinking, cheering, eating and adrenalin rush when your team scores a touchdown.  Luckily, I married a man who shares my same interests, and neither of us has to pretend to like something we don’t.  But we always watch the Super Bowl, and yes, my husband does understand the game.  I was looking forward to it this year, because age  provided Super Bowl drama.

Here we had the Tampa Bay Buccaneer’s quarterback, 43 year old  Tom Brady,  pitted against a man who is young enough to be his son.  Would wisdom prevail? Does  experience matter?  Any of us who’ve experienced ageism in the workplace believe that it does.  And yet, we’re frequently pushed out by some recent college graduate who’s half our age.  Last night at the 2021 Super Bowl,  we  saw the battle of the ages played out before our very eyes.

Age provided super bowl drama/ 43 year old Brady against 25 year old Mahomes
Age provided Super Bowl Drama. 43 year Brady’s experience beat 25 year old Mahomes’ youth.

Betting odds on the afternoon before the game strongly favored youth.  They predicted an easy win for 25 year old quarterback Patrick  Mahomes, and the Kansas City  Chiefs.    But at the last minute, the big time gamblers put their money on Brady.

In a profession where physical fitness and agility is important, brains and wisdom may not win in the end.  Brady could  have stopped when he was at the top of his game.  But you have to admire his courage in sticking it out.  Are you  over the hill at 40?  Let’s hope not.

As it turned out, wisdom prevailed in the Super Bowl, with the Buccaneers  out thinking, out playing, their younger opponents.  Tom Brady deserves an award from AARP  for a win in the fight against ageism

BRADY’S PUZZLING FAMILY DRAMA

At the risk of sounding like a curmudgeon, I find Tom Brady’s family situation a bit unsettling.  I’m thinking of it from the oldest son’s point of view.  How does a small child understand having a famous father that has never lived with his mother since he was born?   Especially if the Mom lives in California and the Dad lives in New York?  Brady’s puzzling family drama leaves me scratching my head.

50% of children are born to single moms.  Getting pregnant when you aren’t married is no longer taboo.  The popular morning show host, Savannah Guthrie, proudly announced at her wedding that she was 4 months pregnant.  I guess that didn’t bother anyone.  But at least, she was getting married to the father.

I think Brady's oldest son must feel confused
Brady’s unusual family situation makes you wonder what they tell his oldest son

I’m glad Brady’s ex girlfriend , Bridget Moynahan, decided to give birth,  and I applaud Tom for being a part of the boy’s life. But it’s strange that the two of them  were in a 3 year relationship, and yet she didn’t conceive  until the month before they split.  What kind of birth control is that?   You don’t get pregnant when you’re madly in love, but wait until things are falling apart?

I’m sure it’s best that they didn’t feel pressure to get married at that point.  Being raised by people who don’t love each other would be toxic. And yet, how did they explain the facts of his life to this  little kid as he was growing up?  Even if you talked about male and female differences, and how a baby gets born,  I think it would be something the child couldn’t quite grasp.

It seems like every time Brady is in the spotlight, the media  interviews  Bridget Moynahan.  It must be embarrassing for the boy, year after year, having to read about the circumstances of his birth.   They say he’s “surrounded by love,” and I’m sure that’s true.  Only time will tell how he handles his very public parental situation.  Fortunately, he’s growing up on the East and West Coast where mixed up families are the norm..  It might be more difficult here in the conservative  heartland

All I hope is that ordinary men don’t decide it’s glamorous to father a child , break up with their baby mama,  then  marry another woman and start a new family.