HUNGRY FOR HEALTHY VEGGIE SOUP

Christmas was kind of a bummer.   A lot of us got sick.  Even Princess Anne had to skip the royal dinner at Sandringham because she had a cold.  I spent the day in jammies, thankful that my husband didn’t catch whatever  was wrong with me.  Allergic rhinitis? Flu? Cold?  I don’t know and don’t care now, because I’m feeling normal today. Thankfully, I had the fixin’s for a fancy dinner of filet mignon and twice baked potatoes on hand, so we weren’t cheated of a special holiday meal.  But now, I’m hungry  for Healthy Veggie Soup.

hungry for healthy veggie soup. Make it with bone broth for extra nutritional value.
HUNGRY FOR HEALTH VEGGIE SOUP. Make it with v8 and beef bone broth for extra nutrition.

Growing up in the forties, my mom always made  a kettle  of  vegetable soup on cold winter days. She started  with a beef soup bone.   They don’t sell those in supermarkets anymore, and that’s a shame.  Because by simmering  it all day, you were guaranteed some super nutritious bone broth to cure whatever ailed you. Next,  she added  a jar of tomatoes canned last summer,  and sliced some carrots.  Maybe some  celery and onions.

That kettle might sit on the stove and simmer all day. Later, she would add other canned veggies like green beans, corn, and fresh  potatoes.  Just before serving, she removed the bone and scraped the beef into the soup.  There was always  home baked bread to go along with the soup.  And  plenty left for seconds.  That’s just one of the economical, filling, delicious  meals that warmed our tummies and kept us healthy.

In this week  after Christmas, I’m hungry for healthy beef veggie soup like my mother made.  However, I’m forced to come up with my own recipe, since I don’t can in the summer, and I’m unable to  buy a soup bone anywhere close by.

I’ll start with stew meat,  bottled v8 juice. a box of beef bone broth, and water.  You can add more water during the cooking process if you think the soup  is getting cooked down too much. .   Later, when it’s about an hour from dinner time, I’ll add  carrots,  potato chunks,  and perhaps some  cut up cabbage.  Green beans and corn are also  optional, so I haven’t put them in the recipe .  Some store bought French bread will round out the meal.

I don’t strictly follow  a recipe, but this may  give you some guidelines.

Vegetable Beef Soup

INGREDIENTS:

2 T olive oi

½ cup chopped celery

½ cup chopped onion

½ pound  beef stew meat

3 cups v8Juice

2  cups beef bone broth

1 cup water

1 bay leaf

1 carrot, scrapped and chopped

2 potatoes peeled and diced

1 cup of chopped Cabbage leaves(optional)

DIRECTIONS:

Saute the celery and onions in olive oil  until translucent.  Add the beef stew meat and  sear a few minutes until brown. Stir in the V 8 juice, bone broth,  water and bay leaf. .  Simmer for 2 hours.  Add the carrots and potatoes;  simmer another half an hour until all are tender.  About 10 minutes before you turn off the heat, , add the cabbage leaves. Remove the bay leaf.  Makes 2 or 3 servings, depending on your appetite.

Store any left over in the frig.  By now, the flavors have blended overnight and the soup tastes even better the next day.

Have a happy, healthy new year!

BUSINESSES ARE SLIP SLIDING AWAY

Economists can’t agree on whether or not we’re in a recession. Some are predicting doomsday, while stock brokers are advising investors to buy now.  Financial analysis is far too sophisticated for me to understand.  What I do know is that in this small midwestern college town, businesses are slip sliding away.

Businesses are slip sliding away because of high costs of goods and labor shortages
BUSINESSES ARE SLIP SLIDING AWAY because of high costs of labor and materials, plus lack of demand.

Let’s start with the past month. We called and ordered new window blinds to shut out the sunlight glaring in my husband’s failing eyesight.  We chose to buy from a  business that had been around for a quarter of a century.  But when it came time to deliver the blinds, we were informed they’re going out of business at the end of the year.  Unfortunately, the remote control didn’t work on the motorized roller  blinds.  Now, we are waiting for a working remote.  And have just been informed it won’t be in until sometime in January  They wanted us to pay the bill now, but we’re waiting until we get what we ordered.

.A few weeks ago, we bought all new tires for our aging SUV.  Several days later, we found the tire pressure down on the left front  tire.  Asked the dealer what was wrong, and they shrugged and simply put more air in the tire.  It went down a week later.  They wanted us to stay and look for a nail in the tire, but we were low on time, so just got a refill on the air.  The next week, the pressure went down again. This time, they grudgingly agreed to an inspection and found a leaky valve, which they had overlooked when installing the new tires.  I suspect this dealership is understaffed and seeing a drop in new business. It won’t surprise me if they either change hands or simply slip slide  away in the coming year.

. Lost my eye glasses, then accidentally found them after we stepped on them under the table.  Called the hospital optical shop which has been in here over 35 years.  Said they’re going out of business, but offered to fix my glasses.  Which they did, free of charge.  So sorry the people there will lose their jobs next year.

Took my prescription to one of those bargain  optical companies in a strip mall for a pair of back up bifocals. There was one person waiting on folks.  While he checked my face to fit my glasses, he stopped to wait on other customers who were making new appointments.  Then, he left  again to help someone at the desk fill out some paperwork. Finally, finished the measurements, and  said the glasses would be ready the next day. But they weren’t, which I found out after driving across town to pick them up.  Although I’ve already paid for them, they can’t tell me when they will be ready because the person in the lab is sick, and their equipment for grinding out glasses is broken down.

These experiences have all taken place within a months’ time.  I can’t remember anything like this in my lifetime.  I have to believe that our economy isn’t as healthy as the politicians would like us to believe. How many more businesses will slip slide away next year?

TOUGHING IT OUT ISN’T NOBLE

There’s a lot of sickness going around these days.  Hospitals are at capacity, and it seems like half the people we know are not feeling well.  Nevertheless, a lot of them keep carrying on.  Going to work, shopping, attending social events—which only prolongs their illness.    For some reason, many people consider it a badge of honor to keep going when they’re sick.  However,  if you catch whatever it is they have, you will not agree.  Toughing it out isn’t always noble.

Toughing it out isn't noble. You shouldn't work when you're sick, and contaminate others.
TOUGHING IT OUT ISN’T NOBLE. You will contaminate others if you come to work sick.

Decades ago, I worked for a hospital that had a very generous sick pay policy.  So generous that they paid you at the end of the year for whatever sick days you hadn’t taken.  Consequently, many of the lower paid employees in dietary, housekeeping and laundry came to work sick.  Because they needed that end of year pay out to catch up on their bills.  Eventually, someone in human resources realized the folly of that policy, and stopped the  non used  sick pay bonus..  Which made all the healthy people feel like they were being penalized for taking better care of themselves.  From an employer standpoint, it was a no win situation.  Damned if they did, or didn’t .

Last month, the rail workers union was prepared to go on strike because they don’t get paid for sick days.  I can’t say I blame them, and I find it appalling that any company would want someone with the flu or covid to come in and spread their sickness around to all their co-workers.

Aside from the sick pay issue, there is also the problem of people going out to parties and other social occasions when they’re coughing and sneezing in someone’s face.  Why do they do it?  Are they afraid their hosts will be offended if they don’t attend a  birthday party?  Or is their social life more important then their own health and the wellness of others who come down sick after being near them?  Maybe they’re afraid their relatives  will be offended if they don’t show up for Christmas Dinner or some other family event.  If that’s the case, there’s something wrong with anyone who would wants a sick person sitting next to them or  across the table.  I think most hostesses would prefer you stay at home.

For heaven’s sake, stay home when’s you’re sick.  Rest is the only way to get well, and keep yOu from contaminating others.  Toughing it out isn’t always noble or heroic.

Eight Gifts for the Old-Old

When you’re buying a gift for an older person, you have to consider where they fit in the old- age spectrum.   Is the person Young-Old (65-75)  Middle-Old (75-85) or Old-Old (85 and beyond) While trips and tickets to musicals may be appropriate for the Young-Olds, they don’t work so well for the over 80 crowd.  Because that’s when the physical limitations that come with age start to kick in, big time.  Various medical conditions,  failing eyesight, poor hearing–all  narrow the desirable gifts suggestions considerably .  So, here are eight gifts for the old-old  which may not have occurred to you.

  1. LARGE PRINT BOOKS.  If you buy a book from a store, its probably going to be in regular print size.  But if you’re like my husband, you can’t make it through the small print without a magnifying glass, and that’s tedious. Amazon has a large print selection which includes many best sellers.  They may cost a little more, but they will be much appreciated by your 90 year old grandpa.
  2. HAND WARMERS Many elderly folks have poor circulation. Even with the thermostat at 72, their hands may get cold if they’re sitting in a draft.  These warmers have rechargeable batteries, and have three different settings.  Come January, they’ll be grateful for these warmers to warm their cold fingertips.
  3. SUGAR FREE CHOCOLATES.  11 % of the population in the United States has diabetes.   After the age of 65 the  chances of developing prediabetes increase dramatically. .  Sugar free candy  may cost a little more, but that’s what makes it  a special gift for your diabetic relatives..
  4. SOFT KNIT GLOVES.  You can’t go wrong here, because most everyone loses a glove or two in the winter.  It’s nice to have a back up pair  when that happens.

    8 GIFTS FOR THE OLD-OLD. THIS LONG REACHER GRABBER is actually called a trash picker.
    8 GIFTS FOR THE OLD-OLD. A long reach grabber is handy for elderly and disabled.
  5. LONG REACH GRABBER, otherwise called a trash picker.. This horrible sounding gift is actually pretty slick.  Many old people can’t bend over to pick up something they dropped.  Especially if it rolls away.  These handy grabbers are perfect for retrieving whatever it is that fell to the floor.
  6. FACEBOOK VIDEO CALLING DEVICE.. Sounds a little high tech, but once you set it  up, it’s pretty easy to navigate.  One drawback: The recipient needs a Facebook account, and if they’re not comfortable with that, this won’t work for them.

    Eight gifts for the old-old may include a facebook portal
    EIGHT GIFTS FOR THE OLD-OLD. If they have a facebook account;, they will enjoy this video calling device
  7. AMARYLLIS BULBS. Whether they’re still living at home, or in an assisted living facility, there’s always room for a potted Amaryllis bulb.  Old folks feel their spirits lift as they watch the miracle of beautiful amaryllis blooming right before their eyes in the dead of winter.
  8. FRESH FRUIT IN A SMALL BOX.  No bushel baskets, please.  You can only consume so many apples and oranges before they start turning brown.  But they’re a healthy choice for the elderly who can’t get out to shop for fresh produce.

There’s still time to shop!  You can give your Old-Old relatives a gift they’ll truly enjoy.

WHY MEGHAN SHOULDN’T GO BAREFOOT

While growing up in a small town during the 1940’s, going barefoot was frowned upon in our middle class neighborhood.  If you didn’t wear shoes in the summer, it meant your parents couldn’t afford them.  In our house, bare feet were verboten because they posed a health hazard.  You could step on a rusty  nail, and get lockjaw.  Or, you might come  home with a big cut that bled all over the living room rug.   All of which required expensive doctor visits or even a trip to the hospital emergency room, resulting in a serious financial crisis.  I’m still stricken with the phobia associated with  unshod feet treading on a minefield of nails, bacteria, glass, feces,  and God knows what all.  And that’s why Meghan shouldn’t go barefoot.

WHY MEGHAN SHOULDN'T GO BAREFOOT. It can be hazardous to your health.
WHY MEGHAN SHOULDN’T GO BAREFOOT. At least 60 diseases can be caused by not wearing shoes.

My country cousins went blissfully barefoot all summer, and I don’t remember any serious traumas resulting.  Also, my husband was raised on a farm in Nebraska and didn’t wear  shoes until school started.  Anyone living near a beach  thought nothing of going barefoot, either.  And now, many people have  backyard pools , where going barefoot  comes naturally.  I suppose that Meghan Markle, being a California girl, saw nothing wrong with going barefoot at Prince Harry’s house.   She didn’t understand the way it must have looked to her aristocratic future in-laws the first time they met in England. .

In a published  family picture, Meghan, Harry, and their kids are all barefoot.  I hope it was just a pose, and they put their shoes back on as soon as the photo shoot was over.  Especially if they were in the chicken coop.  Did you know that bird  droppings can invade a tiny cut on your foot and cause histoplasmosis?  There are at least 60 diseases that could result from going barefoot, including MRSA.  Fungal infections are commonly caused by not wearing shoes.

According to podiatrists,  going barefoot can be a good thing. , Walking barefoot on carpets, grass or sand  improves circulation.  It also may help  strengthen flexibility of the muscles and ligaments of the foot, and improve your posture and body balance.  They say It’s okay on a dry , sunny day to take off your shoes and dance on the lawn or beach.  Just remember to clean your feet afterwards and, yes, put your shoes back on.

If you have read my previous blogs, you know I’m generally in Meghan Markle’s corner.  She has accomplished so much in her lifetime as a bi racial woman without inherited  wealth  to back her up.  But encouraging entire  families to go shoeless could be hazardous to their health.  And that’s why Meghan shouldn’t go barefoot.

BABY OF THE FAMILY BLUES

The holiday season is a time when birth order can be problematic.  Especially if you’re like me—the baby of the family.  All families have a baby, unless there’s just one child.  So there are zillions of us out there.  When you’re a baby of the family,  it sometimes seems like the older kids receive more thoughtful gifts from Santa.   They are more experienced  at wheedling their parents into getting them what they desire.    There are other downsides to being the baby, but one of the worst is when your  siblings have all passed away and you’re the only one left with the baby of the family blues.

BABY OF THE FAMILY BLUES sometimes surface at Christmas
BABY OF THE FAMILY BLUES. The youngest child sometimes feels overshadowed by her older siblings.

I really didn’t appreciate my place in the family when I was growing up.    After all, I had two older sisters,  which meant most of my clothing was on the third round.  (That was in the post depression years, and my father had health problems.)  It wasn’t until I was old enough to baby sit that I could pay for my own new clothes.   I didn’t hold it against anyone, because I knew money was tight in our family of three girls and a boy—but I didn’t like it much, either.

Later on, I nurtured a few more grudges, like remembering  the time I was  accidentally left behind after a picnic in the park.  They were back in a few minutes, but it felt like everyone sorta forgot about me sometimes.

Another annoying thing was being called by my oldest sister’s first name.   And when I moved back to town at the age of 36, I was shocked to find that people were still doing it.  It  happens to this day, even though my sister is long gone.   My identity, so carefully nurtured, once again was swallowed up by my  sister, who had lived in the same town her entire life.

After college, I moved away.  Took a job in Chicago, later moved to Florida.  Then I started missing my older siblings.  and cried when their visits came to an end. And when my first marriage went bad, and I had three little children to take care of, they opened their arms to me when I moved back home.  That’s when I was glad to be the baby of the family.

I suspect Meghan and Harry have a touch of Baby of the Family Blues.  Meghan, especially.  Not only was she her mother’s only child , she was the half-sister baby in her father’s first family.

The baby may feel like an outsider, because the older kids seem to get more of their parent’s attention and respect.   I can  understand why Harry refers to himself as the Spare.  I remember exactly how that feels.  The baby of the family blues never really go away.

TWITTERDUM & TWITTERDEE ARE DIFFERENT

Like most people my age, I’m not very tech savvy.  As an example:  I don’t understand what Elon Musk meant when he said that any employee who can write  code should come to his office.   I asked my grandson what it means to  “write code.”  He calmly replied, “It means you can write software programs.” I didn’t pursue the topic any further.  I’ve been on Twitter for about a decade and outwardly, nothing  has changed.  However, my blog posts on the new Twitter are  getting many  more traffic referrals in the past few weeks.  I haven’t the faintest idea why.   All I know is that  Twitterdum and Twitterdee are different. They’re not the same now.

TWITTERDum & TWITTERDEE ARE DIFFERENT. They've no longer the same.
TWITTEREUM & TWITTERDEE ARE DIFFERENT. There have been some great changes.

 

Why in the world would an octogenarian be on Twitter ?  I daresay, there are few of us on this particular social media site. It all started when I published my first novel, Take the Money; Romantic Suspense in Costa Rica.  After finishing that Herculean task, and seeing the finished product for sale on Amazon, someone said  that I should be marketing it on Twitter.  Somehow, I figured out how to open  a Twitter account.  I had no idea what I was doing.  In fact, I ended up with two Twitter accounts.   I still don’t know how to  delete the old one, but someone up there in Twitter heaven knows the difference, and links my blog posts  to the right  one.

If you think it takes a knowledge of computer science to write a blog, think again.  I poked around on the internet and finally found what they call a host server, or something.  Once again, in my ignorance, I set up two different blogs on Word Press, but only use the one.  I don’t have the technical knowledge of how to delete the old one and this has caused some major problems with analytics.  To make matters worse, I decided to move my  blog to a different host server.,   Scratching your head?  I can’t explain any of it.  However, I do have a statistical plug in that tells me thousands of people all over the world are reading my blog every day.  So I just keep writing away.

Back to Twitter.  For several years, I used it only for promoting my novel.   And then I started this blog, which took on a life of it’s own.  For awhile, I thought I’d ask some publisher if they were interested in printing a book of my most popular posts.  But a literary agent told me no one publishes something that’s already been over the internet.   However,  I’m not trying to monetize it– just connecting with family and friends while expressing my opinion on various subjects before I leave this world.

I try  to look at both sides when talking politics, empathizing  with  Republicans and Democrats alike.  But somewhere along the way , I must have written something that Twitter didn’t like.  They didn’t kick me off, but obviously, they weren’t promoting my blog, because I only got 1 or 2 referrals a month from them.  Now I’m getting about 30 or 40  a day.  What has happened at Twitter?  I don’t know, but I like it.  Twitterdum and  Twitterdee aren’t the same..  They’re distinctly different now.