EATING OUT IS LOSING ITS LUSTER

One thing we sorely missed during the pandemic was having  dinner at a fine restaurant.  I always said I’d rather have one meal at a 5 star restaurant than five meals at a franchise operation. Consequently, we were excited when the governor dropped the mask mandate last month, and we could finally make a reservation at a popular local restaurant.  We’ve been out twice now, and come away disappointed.  Eating out is losing it’s luster.  But why?

Slow service.  Maybe it will change when the federal unemployment bonus comes to an end.  But right now, there really aren’t enough cooks and wait staff to serve a good meal in a timely manner.  Many were staying at home because they couldn’t afford to go back to work.  As a result, cooks and servers who did come to work were stretched to the breaking point.  Both times, we waited almost two hours to be served our meal.  Meanwhile, we’re chomping away on bread to quell the hunger pangs, and drinking too much wine on an empty stomach.  Resulting in a headache that made it difficult to get to sleep.

Prices.  Yes, prices have gone up.  Not just a little, but a lot.  A bottle of wine could usually be purchased for thirty some dollars.  Now,  in that same restaurant, you can’t get a bottle for less than sixty dollars.  Entrees are at least 30% more costly. When they bring the bill, you blink.  Was the food really that good?  Actually, it wasn’t as tasty as it used to be.  The steak was a bit overdone, and not nearly as tender.  Not sure if they’re buying lower grade meat, or an overworked cook didn’t have the time to take it off the grill at the right time.

Eating out is losing its luster. Wait staff is overworked and masked.
Eating out is losing its luster. Wait staff is overworked; prices are high, and masked servers are a downer.

Masks.  Servers are still required to wear masks.  Unless you have young ears, you have to ask them to repeat themselves and speak more slowly.  And you can’t help but feel sorry for them, knowing how hot and sweaty masks can be when worn for a period of time.   Masked servers are a downer, and detract from the overall ambiance.

Yes,  eating out is  losing its luster.  But we’re not ready to give it up.   Being optimistic, we hope that when they’re operating with a full staff, the service will improve.  And we’ll be exploring other local restaurants who may not have such steep price increases.  And maybe, one of these days, we won’t have  masked servers.

 

7 New Year Hopes & Dreams

For the past 10 months, we’ve been treading water.  Just trying to keep going, staying alive and well.   It’s been a time  of emotional ups and downs, as we adjust to the social isolation and other restrictions of the  covid-19 pandemic .  Now.  there’s light at the end of the tunnel.  We can allow ourselves to think of seven  New Year  hopes and dreams for  2021.

 

  1. Vaccine: Not sure when it’s going to be available.  We’re hoping to get it in the next month or so.   My husband has agreed to go first.  If he can handle it all right, I’ll get it too.  Not looking forward to the side effects, but there really isn’t any choice.
  2. Dinner at a fine restaurant. We’ve done a lot more take out this year, but sitting down with cardboard containers at your table doesn’t quite do the job.  I want to get dressed up, go out for dinner,  and enjoy the ambiance:  Romantic  lighting.  Soft music.  An appealing  menu of delicious food. .  Attentive wait staff.   Afterwards, nothing to clean up or throw away in the kitchen.

    7 hopes and dreams for the new year
    7 new year hopes and dreams include dining at a fine restaurant.
  3. Getting a Haircut.. Salons have been open, but I’ve not been willing to take that risk. I’ve done a pretty decent job of cutting my own hair, but a professional will do much better.
  4. Talking to people when out in public. When wearing a stocking cap and mask, most people don’t recognize me. And even if I see  someone I know, , I’m afraid to stop and chat.  Didn’t realize how much I miss interacting with casual friends and acquaintences.
  5. Swimming. Yes the pool at the YMCA has been open. And they’re following all the guidelines for social distancing, but it’s a little too high risk at my age.   I was okay with it in the summer because I could leave without going into the locker  room. But walking out in the cold with damp clothes is not my idea of fun. I just want to dive in the water, swim, do some exercises, get out, take a shower, dry my hair, get dressed,  and walk out into the sunshine.
  6. Senior center activities. Our local senior center is a haven for the retirement crowd. Miss the camaraderie of  participating in tai chi and playing mahjong.     Eager to once again  see friendly faces,  and having a good time.
  7.  Family get togethers.  You can Skype and Zoom all you want, but it’s not the same as hearing the laughter of your grandchildren,  seeing the light in their eyes. and the feel of a warm hug.

                      Happy New Year!