For the past 10 months, we’ve been treading water.  Just trying to keep going, staying alive and well.   It’s been a time  of emotional ups and downs, as we adjust to the social isolation and other restrictions of the  covid-19 pandemic .  Now.  there’s light at the end of the tunnel.  We can allow ourselves to think of seven  New Year  hopes and dreams for  2021.

1. Vaccine: Not sure when it’s going to be available.  We’re hoping to get it in the next month or so.   My husband has agreed to go first.  If he can handle it all right, I’ll get it too.  Not looking forward to the side effects, but there really isn’t any choice.
2. Dinner at a fine restaurant. We’ve done a lot more take out this year, but sitting down with cardboard containers at your table doesn’t quite do the job.  I want to get dressed up, go out for dinner,  and enjoy the ambiance:  Romantic  lighting.  Soft music.  An appealing  menu of delicious food. .  Attentive wait staff.   Afterwards, nothing to clean up or throw away in the kitchen.

   

3. Getting a Haircut.. Salons have been open, but I’ve not been willing to take that risk. I’ve done a pretty decent job of cutting my own hair, but a professional will do much better.
4. Talking to people when out in public. When wearing a stocking cap and mask, most people don’t recognize me. And even if I see  someone I know, , I’m afraid to stop and chat.  Didn’t realize how much I miss interacting with casual friends and acquaintences.
5. Swimming. Yes the pool at the YMCA has been open. And they’re following all the guidelines for social distancing, but it’s a little too high risk at my age.   I was okay with it in the summer because I could leave without going into the locker  room. But walking out in the cold with damp clothes is not my idea of fun. I just want to dive in the water, swim, do some exercises, get out, take a shower, dry my hair, get dressed,  and walk out into the sunshine.
6. Senior center activities. Our local senior center is a haven for the retirement crowd. Miss the camaraderie of  participating in tai chi and playing mahjong.     Eager to once again  see friendly faces,  and having a good time.
7.  Family get togethers.  You can Skype and Zoom all you want, but it’s not the same as hearing the laughter of your grandchildren,  seeing the light in their eyes. and the feel of a warm hug.

                      Happy New Year!