LOVE OUR LOCAL POLICE

Our city is not overly safe.  We have a crime index of 20, which means that 80% of US cities are safer than ours. Therefore,  our local police do not have an easy job.  Death by gunfire is a hazard. Officers are often shot when making arrests.   Being a cop is not for the faint of heart.  But having lived in this community for a good part of my life, I’ve come to love our local police.

People in big cities like Seattle and Minneapolis would probably be offended if I said such a thing in their presence.  They seem to hate the police, and often it’s for good reason.  Everyone was horrified as they witnessed the murder of George Floyd on television.  It’s hard to believe that  police would resort to such brutal tactics.    Why don’t we have that problem in small cities?

Should we defund or love the police
Police face dangerous situations every day. Should we defund, or love the police?

Possibly, it’s because our police officers are often  someone we knew from our neighborhoods or schools.  Similarly, when making arrests, the officers may be acquainted with the offender, or someone in the family.  Also, our police department is proactive  in our community with many  outreach programs.  If you take a walk through one of our parks, you’ll often notice a police car making the rounds. That makes me feel safe.  Similarly, I don’t feel upset when a police car is behind me in traffic.  I know  they will protect me if something bad happens.  And best of all, is seeing a police car parked in front of a school.

Should we defund the police?  I can’t imagine why.  Who would you call if a crime takes place?  What if you’re being robbed, or threatened with a home invasion?  Without the presence of a local police force, criminals would have free rein .  Years ago, I was a witness in a murder case.  It was a frightening experience, and I had to spend some time answering questions at the police station.  They treated me with respect and dignity. And the murderer was sent to prison, which was where he belonged.

Being a police officer is a physically demanding job. Consequently, they must pass physical ability tests to make sure they have the stamina, endurance and strength required. Also, they can’t have  a criminal record.  Background checks must show that they have the mental resilience to endure the frightful images and dangerous situations they encounter on a daily basis

.Police  are first responders to public safety issues and serious crime  .As a result , there will be slower response to 911 calls if they are defunded.  Therefore,  delays in police response will increase fear of crimes, make victims of crime helpless, and wreak havoc on our community.

Let’s love our local police, not defund them.

 

 

PANDEMIC SENSE AND NONSENSE

Things are settling down and reopening up.  Although the coronavirus is still with us, we can sit back and wonder about the pandemic sense and nonsense that occurred.    A lot of decisions were made by different elected officials all over  the country, that didn’t seem well thought through. Here in the heartland, ordinary people don’t always agree with  what has gone down.

Pandemic sense and nonsense: Stimulus checks. Unemployment benefits. Libraries last to open. Politicians blaming each other.
Why weren’t stimulus checks based on need?  Pandemic Sense & Nonsense

Congress  hurried up and passed a massive stimulus bill that benefited some people far more than others.  The strangest thing was the stimulus checks.  Anyone who filed a tax return for less than $75,000  received  tax  free money that wasn’t based on need or cost of living.  $1200 won’t go very far in San Francisco, but it could pay for a lot of rent and groceries in small town, America. Same thing with the unemployment benefits. $600 a week  plus state unemployment will go a long way in some parts of the country.  In fact, it’s proven to be a disincentive for restaurant employees’ returning to work. Consequently,  a lot of tax payer money has gone to people who really don’t need it at all.

.Restaurants and bars have been allowed to open for a couple of weeks in our city.  They must follow certain social distancing guidelines but at least you can be served a meal that you didn’t have to cook or send for.  This coming week, our library will finally be allowed to open their doors.  Does this seem a little strange?  Why are libraries so far down  the totem pole? They should have opened before bars and hair salons.

Libraries are at the heart of any city. Books feed the soul, and will get you through  tough times.   I can remember growing up in the post depression years during World War II.  Everything good was rationed. You couldn’t’ even buy ice cream—it had to be sherbet, unless you made it yourself. But the highlight of my week—starting at age six—was my weekly trip to the library.  A good book will take you to far away places, and  show you how people in other times or in different countries think and feel.  Nothing can replace books.  Certainly not a bottle of beer or a plate of spaghetti eaten at a restaurant.

Mask wearing was another thing. First, we were told it didn’t help to wear a mask. Then, about a month later, all the scientists were telling us we should wear masks, after all.  It’s no wonder so many people refuse to wear one.

When things settle down, we’re going to look  back at some of the decisions that were made and scratch our heads.  Mayors are criticizing governors, and governors are criticizing the president.  The politicians are all busy pointing fingers and placing blame.  But the truth is, everyone has been  floundering in a sea of the unknown.  Common sense went out the window

BUYERS BEWARE: MELONS ARE A CRAPSHOOT

There’s nothing so rare as a sweet, juicy cantaloupe.  But when you pick up one at the supermarket, you’re making a big gamble.  That’s because at least half the time, they’re bland.  Some are so bad that they taste like squash.  Buyers beware: melons are a crapshoot .

Years ago,  I used to return  a bad cantaloupe to the place where I’d bought it. Not so much for the money, but because I thought store managers shouldn’t get away with ripping me off.  When you see a big display of melons, you assume they’ve been tasted by someone in charge.  And maybe they have.  If so, that’s even worse.  How can a produce manager look their customers in the eye while selling them a bland  cantaloupe or a watery watermelon?

It's disappointing to pay good money for a bland, tasteless melon.
It’s disappointing to pay good money for a bad melon. Buyers beware:  melons are a crap shoot .

Farmers know when they have a batch of bad melons, and they know why. It’s typically due to too much or too little rainfall. When I was a child, we had a true farmer’s market in our city.  Not the dainty little affairs that pass for a farmer’s market nowadays.  Real farmers came to town with bushels of vegetables and fruits.  That’s when people canned at home.  If a farmer wanted to sell you a watermelon,  it was expected he would offer you a “plug” to taste.  Ditto for muskmelons, now called cantaloupes.  You always knew what you were getting when you bought a melon.

Today, buying supermarket melons is a crapshoot..  You lug the thing home, wash it under running water, then hold your breath while you cut into it.  Ahhh. This one is delicious.  You’ve hit the jackpot. Unfortunately, this only happens about half the time.  How many melons have you tossed in the garbage because they’re so tasteless?  You’re tempted to complain or ask for a refund, but it’s way too much trouble.  Your costly  melon is thrown away because it’s inedible.  Is that a rip-off, or not?

All supermarkets are guilty of selling bland, tasteless melon sometimes.  I think it’s wrong.  Buyers beware: melons are a crapshoot.  And if you get a bad one, be sure to complain to the store manager.   Maybe even ask for a refund.

AMAZON LURES THE SHOPPING DEPRIVED

Have you ever bought a jigsaw puzzle online?  Before Covid-19, we didn’t even own one.  But my husband found them a great way to pass the time while staying at home. Trouble was, the local stores were out of all the good ones.  So we turned to Amazon.  Buying a puzzle by mail order is fraught with hazard.  There are sometimes missing pieces—which you don’t discover until you’ve spent about a week struggling to put the thing together.  When this happened, we decided to get a refund.  Printed out a return label.  To our surprise, it said we had to take it to Kohl’s drop off station for shipping return.  This seemed very strange, until I finally figured it out. Beware:  Amazon lures the shopping deprived..

Amazon and Kohls has formed a partnershipd
Kohls will pack and ship Amazon returns for free. Amazon lures the shopping deprived.

I thought Kohl’s and Amazon were competitors.  After all, online shopping is robbing retailers of much needed traffic. But these two retailers teamed up last year for what seemed like a win-win situation. Kohl’s would pack and ship returns for Amazon for free.  This would bring traffic to Kohl’s.

I know I’ve been making fun of people who shop for clothes during the pandemic.  Why do you need anything new when you have nowhere to go?  But I’d forgotten the siren call of retail therapy.  When I stepped inside Kohl’s I felt a surge of joy. The brightly lit cosmetic counter. Colorful  new summer fashions.  Sale signs everywhere.  As I made my way back to the Amazon kiosk, temptation overcame me.  My senses pulsed with desire. No, I did not need new tops and shorts.  Not at all.  But I knew what was going to happen, and I didn’t have the strength to stop it.

Like a starving refugee, I darted  from counter to counter, filling my arms with merchandise.  My face mask was getting hot, but I didn’t care.  I couldn’t leave until I had used the 25% discount coupon that I received at the Amazon drop off station.  When I got home with my packages, my husband had  a good laugh.  I had fallen for their trap. Amazon lures the shopping deprived.

AY CARAMBA! Chicken Enchilada Casserole

Do you miss foreign travel during the covid-19 pandemic?   We spent winters in South Texas for many years, and loved taking trips to Mexico.  Most  often to border towns, but also more extended trips . Beautiful, sophisticated Monterrey, and far down to the major port city of  Veracruz.  We loved the food.  Homemade tortilla chips.  Spicy hot salsa. Tacos, enchiladas, and all of the other wonderful dishes.  Always accompanied by Margaritas, no matter what time of day.  Try this Chicken Enchilada Casserole for a taste of Mexico.  Even if you aren’t ready to fly there,  you can close your eyes and dream. Ay Caramba!

Chicken Enchilada Casserole

INGREDIENTS:

3 cups shredded, cooked chicken.

1 package Taco seasoning mix

1 can (4.5 oz.) chopped green chilies

1 cup fresh or canned whole kernel sweet corn

1 can (15.5 oz) black beans, rinsed and drained

1 (10z)  can red enchilada sauce

8 ( 6 inch) corn tortillas cut in half

2 cups shredded Colby-Monterey Jack cheese blend

Directions:

Preheat oven to 350 degrees..

In a large bowl, combine chicken,  taco seasoning mix, green chilies, corn, black beans, and enchilada sauce.

Place 8 tortilla halves  in the bottom of a 9X13 Inch baking dish. Top with half of the chicken mixture. Sprinkle with 1 cup of the cheese. Top with remaining tortilla halves. Spoon remaining chicken mixture and remaining cup of cheese.

Bake, covered with foil, for the first 20 minutes. Then uncover and Bake 10 more  minutes or until cheese is melted and sauce is bubbling.

Ay Caramba! This Chicken Enchllada Casserole willl please and surprise your family.
Ay Caramba! Surprise your family with Chicken Enchilada Casserole

Garnish with cilantro,  avocado or sour cream , if desired.

If you don’t care for black beans, you can leave them out of the recipe and increase the corn to 2 cups. For the chicken, you can either use rotisserie chicken or poach some chicken breasts.

Your whole family will love this easy-peasy  Chicken Enchilada Casserole.  Better yet, it makes fantastic leftovers for the next day.  Ay caramba!

HOW HAVE YOU CHANGED?

Have you ever been on a retreat?  When I attended parochial school years ago, we were often scheduled to go on retreat.  This meant maybe 3 days of silence and prayer. You didn’t talk to your friends.  kept your mouth shut,  studied the bible, listened to sermons, and prayed.  The purpose was to renew your faith, and refocus your life.  Covid-19 has sent almost all of us on another kind of retreat.  Away from the world you’ve known and the life you’ve always lived, you may end up with a new set of values. How Have You Changed during your Stay-At-Home Days?

Most everyone with a steady job enjoyed the extra sleep when working from home.  You’d forgotten how much better you feel when not sleep deprived. Now, instead of staying up late watching TV, working on a project, or partying, you may strive to get at least seven hours sleep each night.

Staying at home during covid-19 has been a retreat. How Have You changed
How Have You changed while staying at home?

Improved hygiene. Did everyone wash their hands as often as they do now? I suspect that long after we return to normal life, we will have changed our hand washing habits.  Which will lead to less sickness and fewer colds in the winter.

The pleasure of home cooked meals.    . Yes, you’re tired of all the cooking, but you’ve probably tried some new recipes and gained confidence in your own culinary skills.

Finding out what you really don’t like.   As an example,   you’ve played competitive bridge for years.  You thought you couldn’t live with out those endless bridge games .   Surprisingly, you find you don’t miss them at all: The self blaming when you bid wrong or reneged. The mean spirited competition.  No more sleepless nights going over a botched play, or a bad score.   When the quarantine is over, you may decide to play less bridge, , and find other ways to entertain yourself.  Like reading, or spending more time outside.

Hair styles.  Most of us had routine hair appointments,  wore the same style,  and applied the same color for years. .  You’ve almost forgotten  your natural color, and it might surprise you to see that you really like it.  Or you can try out a different color.  You may find that you look better with longer hair, too.  Many of us will look entirely different when we finally venture out into society.

How have you changed these past few months?  Have you found the real you?

POLLSTERS: DON’T ASK, DON’T TELL ME

Do you believe in polls?  Sometimes I do, and sometimes I don’t.  Like most people, I believe what I want to.  If I see a poll favoring my candidate of choice, I’ll hope it’s right.   On the other hand, if a poll favors a disliked candidate, I’ll doubt its accuracy.  When I am asked to take part in surveys and polls,  I always decline.  Pollsters: don’t ask my opinion, don’t tell me  your skewed results.

Pollsters: Don't Ask, Don't Tell Me which candidate I favor
Pollsters use landlines, phones & the internet to invade our privacy.  Pollsters: Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell me

Most  polls are conducted  via cell phone or landline.  Those are possibly the most irritating calls one could receive.  Anyone with common sense refuses to answer calls from an unfamiliar phone number.   Consequently,  A  poll  based on the opinions of those who do answer doesn’t really tell me anything.

Many polls are taken over the internet.  Poll takers and politicians invade my Facebook, Twitter, and Email accounts.  If I log onto various online  news reports, I’m often  interrupted by a question about   Donald  Trump or Joe Biden.

The bad part about answering a survey or poll is that you’re now on someone’s sucker list.  First, you will be inundated with requests for contributions.  Next, you’ll  receive numerous newsletters and e mails meant to alarm and enlighten you .

How do these people get access to my social media?  I’m  tired of spending so much time deleting them.  I click on unsubscribe, and beg them to leave me alone, to no avail..  No, I don’t want to hear from their relatives, either.

Back to the accuracy of polls.    A poll is just a picture of what people are saying or thinking on a particular day. Voters are fickle. They can easily change their minds the next week or month, depending on current events. For example,  the coronavirus pandemic. Or the protests after the death of George Floyd in Minneapolis..

Every day, the polls tell us which candidate is favored,  disliked, or disapproved of . But you know what?  I’d just as soon believe the odds coming out of Vegas.

Pollsters:   Stop calling  me during dinner,  or any time at all.  Discontinue invading my social media online.   Don’t ask what I think or tell me how I feel..