CROSS COUNTRY MEET INSPIRES HOPE

According to recent polls, nearly 80% of Americans are feeling  fearful and angry.  The issues that provoke these feelings are the  coronavirus pandemic, the economic downturn,   the Afghanistan retreat,  and civil unrest spreading across America’s cities.  Last year at this time, we thought things would be better by the summer of 2021.  But they’re not.  We thought the vaccine would take us back to normal.  Trouble is, half of our citizens refuse to get vaccinated, so we’re back to the crisis level. Hospitals are filling up once again with cases of the delta strain.  After a year and a half of misery,  we’re discouraged, and worried how it’s all going to affect  our grandkids .  But yesterday,  I felt an emotion I hadn’t experienced for a long time.  Seeing my grandsons running their hearts out at  cross country  filled me with optimism.  Attending a state wide cross country meet inspires hope.

Cross Country Meet Inspires Hope. Our children are determined and resilient.
Cross Country Meet Inspires Hope. Our boys and girls are brave and determined.

These boys and girls have been in lockdown at a time when they should have been going to class, attending parties, seeing their friends and having a carefree  teenage life.  The only thing I can compare it to is my own teenage years following World War II.  Although we weren’t so  isolated, we grew up scared.  I remember waking up at night, hearing the sound of a distant train, worried that the Germans were coming.  Our brothers, fathers, uncles and cousins went to war and often didn’t come back..  Some of them endured torture in Japanese prison camps.  No wonder we became the “silent generation.”

Silent generation characteristics included  interpersonal respect, self sacrifice, determination and most importantly, resilience.  Those same characteristics are required  to participate in cross country.

Cross Country Meet Inspires Hope. Our children are resilient.
Cross Country Meet Inspires Hope. Our children are emerging from the pandemic strong and resilient.

Yesterday, thousands of boys and girls throughout Indiana raced across the grass , and returned covered with sweat.  Some of them did very well and came in close to the top.  However, others came in toward the end.  But here’s the thing.  I was in a place where I could watch them returning from the race.  There was an incredible camaraderie and affection in the air.  Slower runners congratulated those who’d made better time.  There didn’t seem to be many winners or losers.  Kids walked with their arms around each other.  Parents and grandparents glowed with  pride.   The sun was shining, It  was a beautiful day filled with the joy, love,  and hope.

I predict the “covid” generation will share some of the same characteristics of the silent generation. The previous  “me” generations had everything handed to them, and didn’t have to worry about going to war.  Generally speaking, they were spoiled and unappreciative of what they had.  My grandchildren know that life is unpredictable, and they have learned to deal with that.  In some ways, they are  more mature than their parents were at the same age.   These are the children who will grow up to lead our country in the years to come.  And the lessons they have learned will serve this nation well.

Want to feel hopeful again?  Come  out for a high school cross country meet.

WHAT STRESSES YOU OUT?

A recent survey of millennials itemized their top stressful scenarios.  After reading them over, I’m thinking how lucky these young people  are, and how little they know what’s coming.  What stresses you out?  Apparently, it depends on when you were born.

Things that stress millennials seem trivial to the over 50 crowd
MILLENNIALS HAVE NAMED THEIR TOP STRESSES,  STARTING WITH A LOST CREDIT CARD

Generation X, Baby Boomers, and the Silent Generations have far more complex concerns.   Anyone over fifty would love it if losing their credit card was one of their worst stresses.  I’ve lost many a credit card over the years, and I can remember when it did seem like a terrible stress.  Now, if I find it’s not in my wallet, I pick up the phone, call Visa for a new one, and use my husband’s credit card until my new one arrives.  What’s to worry about?

Here are the top 10 stressful scenarios reported by millennials:

  1. Losing your wallet or credit card
  2. Arguing with a partner
  3. Commute or traffic delays
  4. Losing your phone
  5. Getting to work late
  6. Slow Wifi
  7. Phone battery dying
  8. Forgetting passwords
  9. Credit card fraud
  10. Forgetting phone charger

So, in no particular order, here is my suggested  list of top stressful scenarios for Gen X, Baby Boomers, & the Silent Generation.*

  1. Chronic disease or illness (arthritis, diabetes, cancer, lupus, etc.)
  2. Care giving of elderly parents or disabled spouse
  3. Deaths of family and friends
  4. Job security (50% of people over fifty with lose their job to a younger person)
  5. Addiction (Self or family member)
  6. Weight Control ( 1/3 or people in my state of Indiana are obese.)
  7. Cataracts, Macular Degeneration
  8. Hearing Loss (hearing aids not covered by Medicare)
  9. Loss of balance, falls
  10. Anxiety over teenage children & grandchildren
MIllennials:   If you think losing your cell phone is a big stress,  just wait. It’s going to get worse.  But somehow, you will survive.

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Generation        Age

* Millennials  22-37

Generation X 38-53

Baby Boomers 54-72

Silent Generation 73-90