NO! I WON’T ANSWER YOUR SURVEY

How many times a day does someone call you to participate in a survey?  If  it’s an unknown number, you’re smart enough not to pick up the phone.  But often, it’s a familiar name—possibly a doctor’s office or some medical group.  When you see that on your caller ID, you feel a little nervous.  Did they find something wrong with your blood work?  But when you pick up, there’s a recorded message that they would like you to spend time answering their survey questions.  Bummer!  They’ve not only interrupted my dinner hour, they’ve resorted to scare tactics to make me answer the phone.  The moment I hear that message, I end the call.  No! I won’t answer your survey.

No! i won't answer your survey. Don't interrup my dinner time with annoying phone calls..
No! I won’t answer your survey. Your phone calls are  violating my boundaries.

We have  gone to the same primary care physician for years.  It’s ridiculous for some hospital marketer  to call and ask what we think of him, and whether we were satisfied with the last visit.  What a waste of our time.   Yes, there have been times when we were treated by one of his colleagues, and weren’t exactly thrilled with his/her listening skills.  But doctors are human beings, remember.  If they’re seeing a patient they don’t know well, they might not ask the right questions or come up with answers we like to hear.  We absolutely would not give that doctor a poor rating just because of some isolated incident.

And if we’ve had our first visit with a new health care practitioner, we aren’t going to know  right away  whether they helped us or not.  Sciatica isn’t cured in a day. It’s way too soon to evaluate any therapist after the first or even second session.

Other places now follow up every service they perform with a survey.  Are you satisfied with your oil change?  Your furnace check?  How are you supposed to know if you’re satisfied until you’re sure things are running smoothly.

Have any of these marketing experts  heard that it’s rude to violate boundaries? Butting into quiet family time.?   Calling someone  during the news hour  with a recorded message? .  Most people hate annoying surveys and aren’t comfortable making  negative comments that could backfire on them. .  No! I won’t take part in your survey, so please stop calling.

DO YOURSELF A FAVOR

2020 WAS the worst election year I can ever remember.  And that’s saying a lot, considering my age.  Politics got all mixed up with health care.  President Trump went into denial, saying the  COVID -19 pandemic would be over by Easter.  Not true. New York  Governor Cuomo was more afraid of Trump’s criticism than the lives of  nursing home patients.  Instead of taking advantage  of a Navy ship  sent to accommodate covid-19 victims , Cuomo  shipped them out of hospitals into nursing homes.  What a mess.  Locked up at home, we binged watched the internet, listening to our TV cable news station of choice.   It was exhausting. Now that the pandemic is nearing the end, do yourself a favor. Quit thinking about politics.

Do yourself a favor. Now that the pandemic is nearly over, stop worrying about politics.
Health care influenced  the 2020 election. Do yourself a favor and forget about politics.

Don’t predict the dire outcome of Biden’s presidency before it’s even started.  Let it spin.  There’s nothing you can do and if you believe you can foresee the state of the USA in 2024, you’re kidding yourself.  Already, Trump is saying Biden’s first month was a disaster.  No one can know at this point in time whether the Biden presidency will be a success. A lot can happen in four years. Looking back on the history of our country, who could have predicted  Pearl Harbor?   The 9/11 attack on the world trade center?  . The 2008 recession?  The  Covid-19 pandemic of 2020-2021?

This is what I know and believe:  No matter who is elected as President,  the United States of America is–and will remain—strong. .  We are a nation of immigrants, with the courage  to leave their native country,  and the resilience to start a new life in spite of all the hardships they had to endure in a new land.  Yes, some presidents do a better job than others.  But:  four years isn’t enough time to ruin all the marvelous  things that we have achieved in the past four centuries.

 So do yourself a favor.  Return to school or work at home.  Get some exercise. Play games.  Take your family  on  a picnic.   Have some fun.  Turn off the news and enjoy your life.