HERE’S TO GOOD DADS ON 4TH OF JULY

Once upon a time,  most families were lucky if they owned one car. Many didn’t.  Therefore,  many people didn’t get to watch the fireworks, because no one owned a television.   If you were lucky, your Dad might drive you out to the stadium to watch the fireworks.  So, here’s  to all the good Dads on the 4th of July who took their kids to see the show.

Moms were mostly stay-at-home, and by evening,  they were washing the dishes and cleaning up the kitchen after the day’s picnic of fried chicken (no KFC then) potato salad, deviled eggs and chocolate cake. And no air conditioning.  So it was up to Dad to load the kids in the car to see the fireworks, which were sponsored by the American Legion out  at the stadium

 Across the street lived a widow who didn’t own a car, so we always made a place for her daughter in ours, even though it meant doubling up, and sitting on each other’s laps in the back of the old Chevie . (no seat belts in those days).  We might get to the stadium right before sunset, and wait impatiently for darkness to descend.  And then, wonder of wonders, that first brilliant explosion of fireworks.  Breathlessly , we clapped and cheered as the rockets went off, and one after another colorful displays lit up the sky.

THANKS TO THE GOOD DADS ON THE 4TH OF JULY
Kids always will remember the special times at the fireworks. Here’s to all the good dads on 4th of July.

Dad loved the fireworks, too, but I think what he liked most was watching all the happy, awestruck children, and knowing that he had made this night possible by taking the time to drive us there. When we got back home, way past our normal bedtime, my mother would have taken off her apron and fallen asleep on the couch, waiting to hear about what we’d seen.   We might have another piece of chocolate cake and a glass of milk before we finally went to bed and dreamed of fireworks.

Thanks to my beloved  Daddy, (long gone) ,  for those wonderful memories. Here to all the good dads  who take their  kids to see the fireworks on Independence Day.

 

WHY DO PEOPLE SHOOT FIRECRACKERS?

We’ve been hearing fireworks every night for a couple of weeks in our neighborhood.   I’ve never shot firecrackers from  home, but fireworks like sparklers were another story.  My children loved them, but we were always careful to supervise their use.    Actually, I still  enjoy the sound of firecrackers . They seem  fun and exciting.  Especially during this dull dreary time of the coronavirus pandemic.    But it makes you wonder.  Why do people shoot firecrackers?

Why do people shoot firecrackers? They can be dangerous
Why do people shoot firecrackers? They may appeal to risk takers.

Fireworks are also explosives, and can be dangerous.  According to Kansas State University psychology  professor Mary Cain, this adds to their appeal.  “Engaging in risky behaviors is very reinforcing for people,” she said. “For some, it can cause the  release of a chemical in the brain that makes people feel good.”  She goes on to explain that  such people are “high sensation seekers.”  They love things like roller coasters and sky diving.

I don’t like either one of those activities. Therefore, I  don’t qualify as a risk taker.  But I love the sound of firecrackers, even if they  wake me up at night.  They’re  like a  celebration of  life.  I picture the person behind them as exuberant and cheerful.  I  don’t personally know anyone shooting firecrackers. And I  probably wouldn’t enjoy having them as next door neighbors.  However,  one of the reasons  firecrackers are  appealing is their novelty.  They make the holidays seem more festive.

On the other hand, people have valid reasons for disliking fireworks in the neighborhood.  They may scare small children, or wake babies up from their naps. Some dogs and cats are afraid of fireworks—it can send them into a frenzy.  More importantly, veterans with post traumatic stress disorder may find them traumatic.  The same may be true of retired law enforcement officers.  And what about people with jobs?  They may not be able to get back to sleep if you awaken them in the middle of the night.

Many states ban the use of personal fireworks.  Other states are ambivalent, and attempt to regulate their use.  But one thing is clear.  Whether you love or hate them, firecrackers are here to stay.

Happy 4th of July!