THE ANNUAL LADYBUG INVASION.

Why do we forget about ladybugs until it’s too late?  It happens every year.  We finally had our first frost in Indiana, and the fall colors began to brighten our landscape.  The days were cool, the air crisp and clear.   And then, hot weather returned, bringing The Annual Ladybug Invasion.

Ladybugs come in all colors
BROWN LADYBUG

According to pest control experts, if you wait until ladybugs attach themselves to your house and windows, it’s too late.  You’re supposed to spray the southern  side of your house BEFORE they decide they want a warm place to spend the winter.  My husband’s computer is next to  a  glass door  leading to the deck.  Here, the ladybugs find some thin  opening and manage to crawl inside.  He sits with a fly swatter, batting away all afternoon.

If we open the door, it’s worse.  Swarms of lady bugs fly inside.  And don’t let anyone tell you they don’t bite.  Most of them don’t,  but some do, and we have the little red bite marks to prove it.  And their carcasses stink.  That’s why a lot of people call them stink bugs.  They need a lot of moisture to survive, and  after they get into your dry house during the winter, they die.  We use a hand vacuum to scoop up the dead ladybugs, but then they stink again.

There  must be something good about ladybugs.  Here’s what I found on the internet:  Ladybugs feed on aphids and other soft bodied insects that feed on plants. One ladybug can eat as many as 50 aphids a day.

Aphids are especially hard on roses.  In fact, some shops sell ladybugs to gardeners, who release them at a certain time of day to gobble up the aphids.  I don’t think we’re going to buy any.  I’ll take a can of rose spray to a box of ladybugs, any day. .

MEN, WOMEN & BEAUTY ON TV

What is the most important asset a major network news reporter can possess ?  Apparently,  it depends on whether you are male or female.  Men are allowed to age gracefully.  But there is a double standard for men, women and beauty on TV.

How often do you see a female newscaster on CNN, ABC,  NBC  or Fox News who does’t resemble  a fashion model?  Typically, they have cascades of long, wavy hair,  sparkling white teeth, glowing skin,  lash extensions and perfect makeup.  You can’t quite concentrate on what they’re saying, because you’re  wondering if they have dental implants.

Women must look beautiful on television
Beautiful Woman

Just for fun, I clicked on the website for all the major network news reporters and journalists.  And guess what I saw?  Many ordinary looking men, some quite old, with thinning hair.  Conversely, there were few  women who didn’t qualify as the stereotypical  Pretty Woman.   And of course, female reporters must be model thin and wear designer clothes.

There’s a refreshing change when you turn to Public Broadcasting.  One of our favorite  Indiana news review programs features men and women who probably wouldn’t win a beauty pageant . Even though the participants  don’t try to look like twenty somethings, they are neatly groomed and well dressed.  What’s most appealing is the fact that these people   are remarkably well informed and knowledgeable.

Why  must all  major network female reporters  and journalists strive for the appearance of youthful beauty?

It’s like aging is a disease.   Even Andrea Mitchell, who must be in her seventies, has bleached hair,  theatrical make up, and appears to have had  surgical help.  Saw Martha Raddatz tonight on ABC.  She’s pushing fifty,  but still has long,  blonde hair curling around her shoulders like a college girl.   Leslie Stahl  wears slathers of bright,  gooey,  lipstick. Sadly , if these women  decided to look  their age, they  would probably be banished from television.

There is a double standard for  successful news reporters.  Women must be beautiful, and the men may or may not be handsome, but they aren’t  there because of their looks.   Women reporters haven’t come as far as they would like to believe.  They’re still judged mainly on their appearance,  and they won’t get very  far on television  if they look like Eleanor Roosevelt.

8 THINGS TO LOVE ABOUT A RAINY DAY

When I was a kid growing up in Indiana, we longed for rainy days in the summer.  We didn’t live near an ocean or lake, and didn’t belong  a country club, so the next best thing was rain.  At the first sound of thunder, we  put on our bathing suits, ran outside,  and danced in the rain.  It’s a wonder none of us were ever struck by lightning. Of course, parents today would be accused of child neglect if their kids danced in the rain.  But there are still eight things to love about a rainy day.

dancing in the rain

You can:

1.  Walk into a beauty shop and get a manicure or haircut, without an appointment , because most people are staying home. .

2.  Skip the car wash .  The rain cleans your dusty car.

3. Sleep late,  go to bed early , and wake up feeling refreshed.

4.  Binge on Netflix.  Only dummies  watch movies all day, right?  But you can justify it on rainy days, no matter how well educated you are.

5. Stay in your pajamas all day because no one is apt to drop by.

You don’t have to:

6.  Rake leaves or clean up the yard.  Just stay inside and read a good book

7.   Force yourself to go on a morning run/walk/bicycle ride when you really don’t feel like it.

8.  Attend that boring club meeting, because most people won’t show up.

Above all, do not clean closets, scrub floors, or catch  up on your filing.  Rainy days can be depressing enough without dull, boring chores.

Make Rainy days Fun Days!

LOVE AND HATE AT THE POLLS

When it comes to election day,  the big question is:  what emotion will generate the most votes?  As Tina Turner used to say, “what’s love got to do with it”?  Most of the TV commercials for my state’s midterm election are focused on the awful things the opposing candidate has or hasn’t done. Apparently,  the candidates are banking on hatred for the other guy to win you over.

You have to wonder if all the angst stirred up by the Kavanaugh confirmation is going to mobilize members of both major parties.  Will love or hate  drive them to the polls on election day?  And if so, will they cancel out each other’s votes?  And will the latest odds by CNN prove accurate? They’re saying the Democrats will take the House, and the Republicans will prevail in the Senate.  It will be interesting to see if the predictions are accurate.

VOTING AGAINST, NOT FOR
ELECTION DAY IS COMING

In big cities, people with like minded political views tend to hang out together.   But in the small college town where I live, I interact with people from  various economic backgrounds on a daily basis.  I know flaming liberals and die hard conservatives–and right now,  they’re an angry bunch.  Liberals tend to verbalize their opinions openly, so you pretty much know who is going to vote for the Democratic candidates.  The close-mouthed quiet ones are more apt to be Republicans, but that doesn’t mean they’re not headed for the polls in November.

The country has never been so divided and polarized as it is today.  I can remember some very contentious elections, but somehow, people were civil.  No one would have dreamed of attacking a politician in a restaurant or theater and forcing them to leave. About the only place a politician can feel safe nowadays is in a church.  And that could change at any time!