Shopping malls aren’t my favorite places, but they can’t be avoided during the holidays.  For me, it was taking my granddaughters to pick out some new outfits for Christmas.  I used to love shopping, but navigating with a cane has tampered my enthusiasm.  And the confusion at the stoplights when driving away really throws me for a loop.  Especially when you have to slow down for men  holding cardboard  signs asking for money because they need it to feed their kids, find shelter, etc.   It’s usually the same guys, month after month, so it must be a good paying gig. The average panhandler makes between $15 and $30 dollars an hour.  In some cities, as much as $50 ,  tax free cash.  Should we pity panhandling pros? I’m not so sure.

They station themselves at  various busy intersections throughout the city.  It’s unnerving when you’re trying to look out for a turn signal while a panhandler approaches your car window.  Again, it’s the same people standing in the same spot.  If they have the energy and stamina  to stand out in the rain and snow holding up a  sign, why can’t they find some type of job?

If I come in contact with a homeless person walking along the sidewalk or washing their hair in the library, I’m going to hand them some cash, depending on how much is in my purse. They don’t have to ask.  I am saddened  by the number of people in our city walking the street with their belongings on their back or tied to a bicycle.

Nevertheless, the professional panhandlers who stand at stoplights,  are a different story.  They’re a traffic hazard when you’re trying to turn onto a  busy street or highway..    Unfortunately, they’re protected by law under the First Amendment.  As long as they’re simply standing there with a sign, it’s perfectly legal.   It’s also perfectly fine to ignore them.

No one wants to feel like a mean person who ignores a beggar.   But I will save my money for charitable organizations who run soup kitchens and food banks for those who are truly in need.