RICH, SPICY, PERSIMMON PUDDING

Persimmon Pudding is a holiday favorite here in the Midwest.  Years ago, it was difficult to find persimmon pulp, unless you were lucky enough to know someone with a persimmon tree.  And squeezing the persimmons to separate the skins and seeds from the fruit, then pushing all of  it a through a sieve, was a chore.  What a culinary triumph to serve rich, spicy  persimmon pudding on Thanksgiving Day!

A culinary deight
PERSIMMON PUDDING FOR THANKSGIVING

We used to buy persimmon pulp at a little country store where they kept it in a freezer, and sold out almost the day it came in.  The first time I bought the pulp, I asked the owner,  an old man in bib overalls, if he had a favorite recipe. He looked at me for a moment and said, “just wait here a minute.”  Whereupon he ambled to his house next door, and came back with a xerox copy of this recipe. It’s similar to what they served at the Parke County Covered Bridge Festival for years until the ladies who  made it “retired.”

Persimmon pulp is now available in most upscale grocery stores.  You can even order it over the internet.  It’s a bit pricey compared to the good old days, but it sure beats looking for a persimmon tree and spending all day making pulp.

Persimmons are a spicy delicious fruit
It’s easy , now that you can buy ready made persimmon pulp

Not everyone likes persimmon pudding, but for those that do, it’s a rare treat, especially when served with whipped cream.  There are other persimmon recipes that give you a dessert with  the texture of a brownie or cake, so you might look those up on the internet if you think you would like that better.

PERSIMMON PUDDING

2 cups persimmon pulp

½  cup melted butter

1 cup milk

1 cup half and half (it’s okay to use milk)

2 eggs

1 tsp. baking powder

½ tsp salt

½ tsp nutmeg

1  1/2 cups flour

1 tsp baking soda

1 tsp cinnamon

1 tsp  allspice

 

Mix pulp, eggs.  sugar, melted butter and milk.  Mix dry ingredients separately.  Then combine both mixtures. Stir well. Pour into greased 9 X 13 inch pan and bake for one hour at 325 degrees.  Stir several times while pudding is baking so that it won’t harden at edges of pan.

 

MIDTERM ELECTION DRAMA

Midterms used to be boring elections.  Lucky to have 20% turnout.  That’s all changed now.  People have flocked to early voting sites in record numbers in my state of Indiana.  So,  we should be prepared for some Midterm Election Drama.

Emotions are running hot and high.  Whatever happens, some people are going to be very mad.  Personally, I always feel sorry for the people who lose, even if it’s partly my fault if I didn’t vote for them.  Think of all the time, money, effort, and emotion that goes into running for office.  Most of us wouldn’t go through it.  So, you have to respect anyone who runs for office in these volatile times. They could be risking their life.

winners & losers in the midterms
US electoral politics

The people who garner the most sympathy from me are the families of the losing candidates.  Maybe they didn’t really want their mom/dad/sister/brother/spouse to run at all.  But they were sucked into all the drama, whether they liked it or not.  Now, The kids have to face the embarrassment when they go back to school on Wednesday or Thursday.  I think it must be harder on them than the grown ups.  But there has to be a lot of tears on pillows for everyone.

The winners, of course, are ecstatic.  All their  hard work and determination paid off!  Their families are proud, and they feel like they’re all set.  But really, it’s not going to be that great for them.  Whereas the losers are soon out of public scrutiny and forgotten, the winners are going to face protests, nasty editorials, hate mail, and all kinds of ill will from the losing party.   You have to be tough as a boot, with nerves of steel, to shrug all that off and keep going with a smile on your face.

And so, in anticipation of Tuesday night, I offer my sincere sympathy to the losers, and heartfelt congratulation to the winners.  All of you fought the good fight.  It’s what democracy is all about.

THE ANNUAL LADYBUG INVASION.

Why do we forget about ladybugs until it’s too late?  It happens every year.  We finally had our first frost in Indiana, and the fall colors began to brighten our landscape.  The days were cool, the air crisp and clear.   And then, hot weather returned, bringing The Annual Ladybug Invasion.

Ladybugs come in all colors
BROWN LADYBUG

According to pest control experts, if you wait until ladybugs attach themselves to your house and windows, it’s too late.  You’re supposed to spray the southern  side of your house BEFORE they decide they want a warm place to spend the winter.  My husband’s computer is next to  a  glass door  leading to the deck.  Here, the ladybugs find some thin  opening and manage to crawl inside.  He sits with a fly swatter, batting away all afternoon.

If we open the door, it’s worse.  Swarms of lady bugs fly inside.  And don’t let anyone tell you they don’t bite.  Most of them don’t,  but some do, and we have the little red bite marks to prove it.  And their carcasses stink.  That’s why a lot of people call them stink bugs.  They need a lot of moisture to survive, and  after they get into your dry house during the winter, they die.  We use a hand vacuum to scoop up the dead ladybugs, but then they stink again.

There  must be something good about ladybugs.  Here’s what I found on the internet:  Ladybugs feed on aphids and other soft bodied insects that feed on plants. One ladybug can eat as many as 50 aphids a day.

Aphids are especially hard on roses.  In fact, some shops sell ladybugs to gardeners, who release them at a certain time of day to gobble up the aphids.  I don’t think we’re going to buy any.  I’ll take a can of rose spray to a box of ladybugs, any day. .

MEN, WOMEN & BEAUTY ON TV

What is the most important asset a major network news reporter can possess ?  Apparently,  it depends on whether you are male or female.  Men are allowed to age gracefully.  But there is a double standard for men, women and beauty on TV.

How often do you see a female newscaster on CNN, ABC,  NBC  or Fox News who does’t resemble  a fashion model?  Typically, they have cascades of long, wavy hair,  sparkling white teeth, glowing skin,  lash extensions and perfect makeup.  You can’t quite concentrate on what they’re saying, because you’re  wondering if they have dental implants.

Women must look beautiful on television
Beautiful Woman

Just for fun, I clicked on the website for all the major network news reporters and journalists.  And guess what I saw?  Many ordinary looking men, some quite old, with thinning hair.  Conversely, there were few  women who didn’t qualify as the stereotypical  Pretty Woman.   And of course, female reporters must be model thin and wear designer clothes.

There’s a refreshing change when you turn to Public Broadcasting.  One of our favorite  Indiana news review programs features men and women who probably wouldn’t win a beauty pageant . Even though the participants  don’t try to look like twenty somethings, they are neatly groomed and well dressed.  What’s most appealing is the fact that these people   are remarkably well informed and knowledgeable.

Why  must all  major network female reporters  and journalists strive for the appearance of youthful beauty?

It’s like aging is a disease.   Even Andrea Mitchell, who must be in her seventies, has bleached hair,  theatrical make up, and appears to have had  surgical help.  Saw Martha Raddatz tonight on ABC.  She’s pushing fifty,  but still has long,  blonde hair curling around her shoulders like a college girl.   Leslie Stahl  wears slathers of bright,  gooey,  lipstick. Sadly , if these women  decided to look  their age, they  would probably be banished from television.

There is a double standard for  successful news reporters.  Women must be beautiful, and the men may or may not be handsome, but they aren’t  there because of their looks.   Women reporters haven’t come as far as they would like to believe.  They’re still judged mainly on their appearance,  and they won’t get very  far on television  if they look like Eleanor Roosevelt.

8 THINGS TO LOVE ABOUT A RAINY DAY

When I was a kid growing up in Indiana, we longed for rainy days in the summer.  We didn’t live near an ocean or lake, and didn’t belong  a country club, so the next best thing was rain.  At the first sound of thunder, we  put on our bathing suits, ran outside,  and danced in the rain.  It’s a wonder none of us were ever struck by lightning. Of course, parents today would be accused of child neglect if their kids danced in the rain.  But there are still eight things to love about a rainy day.

dancing in the rain

You can:

1.  Walk into a beauty shop and get a manicure or haircut, without an appointment , because most people are staying home. .

2.  Skip the car wash .  The rain cleans your dusty car.

3. Sleep late,  go to bed early , and wake up feeling refreshed.

4.  Binge on Netflix.  Only dummies  watch movies all day, right?  But you can justify it on rainy days, no matter how well educated you are.

5. Stay in your pajamas all day because no one is apt to drop by.

You don’t have to:

6.  Rake leaves or clean up the yard.  Just stay inside and read a good book

7.   Force yourself to go on a morning run/walk/bicycle ride when you really don’t feel like it.

8.  Attend that boring club meeting, because most people won’t show up.

Above all, do not clean closets, scrub floors, or catch  up on your filing.  Rainy days can be depressing enough without dull, boring chores.

Make Rainy days Fun Days!

LOVE AND HATE AT THE POLLS

When it comes to election day,  the big question is:  what emotion will generate the most votes?  As Tina Turner used to say, “what’s love got to do with it”?  Most of the TV commercials for my state’s midterm election are focused on the awful things the opposing candidate has or hasn’t done. Apparently,  the candidates are banking on hatred for the other guy to win you over.

You have to wonder if all the angst stirred up by the Kavanaugh confirmation is going to mobilize members of both major parties.  Will love or hate  drive them to the polls on election day?  And if so, will they cancel out each other’s votes?  And will the latest odds by CNN prove accurate? They’re saying the Democrats will take the House, and the Republicans will prevail in the Senate.  It will be interesting to see if the predictions are accurate.

VOTING AGAINST, NOT FOR
ELECTION DAY IS COMING

In big cities, people with like minded political views tend to hang out together.   But in the small college town where I live, I interact with people from  various economic backgrounds on a daily basis.  I know flaming liberals and die hard conservatives–and right now,  they’re an angry bunch.  Liberals tend to verbalize their opinions openly, so you pretty much know who is going to vote for the Democratic candidates.  The close-mouthed quiet ones are more apt to be Republicans, but that doesn’t mean they’re not headed for the polls in November.

The country has never been so divided and polarized as it is today.  I can remember some very contentious elections, but somehow, people were civil.  No one would have dreamed of attacking a politician in a restaurant or theater and forcing them to leave. About the only place a politician can feel safe nowadays is in a church.  And that could change at any time!

DECLUTTERING DIARY; DAY 93

When  I posted DeCluttering Diary: Day One,  last July on my first blog, EightyGo,  I had no idea that it would go viral, or that our decluttering project would continue for so long. I thought we had gotten rid of most of the junk in our house.  Oh, how foolish I was! Yes, I had cleaned out  drawers and closets, upstairs and down, in our two story house, but I hadn’t begun to think about the basement.

Declutterng is hard if you've lived in a house for 50 years.
Everything gets hauled away in a truck

Cleaning out the basement of a house that has been lived in by the same person for 50 years is an overwhelming project.  My husband had two separate careers during that time,  and there were boxes of newsletters awards, pictures, reports from all those years.  But the majority of the shelves full of boxes were there before I arrived 30 years ago.

In yellowed, rotting cardboard boxes—unopened once they were sealed with masking tape a half century ago, were baby clothes, toys, scrapbooks, notebooks accumulated by my husband’s  three children who are now in their fifties and sixties. His first wife had carefully boxed up invitations, wrappings and bows from wedding  and baby showers through the years.  We found boxes of tablecloths, ceramics, trip brochures, towels.  Numerous fans, half empty paint cans, electrical cords—the list could go on forever.  You wonder why anyone would have kept all that stuff. But, I, too came with some baggage—old yearbooks, awards, memorabilia from the 26 years I served as Director of Food Service at an acute care hospital.  And of course, pictures of my three children from babyhood to parenthood.

You can see the truckload that emerged from our basement today.  That’s in addition to another truckload last month.  But we aren’t done yet.  There are still odds and ends that we have to think about.  Like the two oxcarts we purchased in Costa Rica 20 years ago.  Maybe we can sell some of these things on E Bay. This winter, we’ll bring up the boxes of pictures and decide which ones to keep.

We thought we would be finished with all of this purging by Thanksgiving, but it looks like it will go on until spring.

Read  DeCluttering Diary: Day One   https://eightygo.blogspot.com/2018/07/decluttering-dairy-day-one.htmln  EightyGo