TELL ME IT’S COMING FROM CHINA

Thanks to Covid, I began shopping for clothes online.  It doesn’t always work out, because what looks good on a size 4 model doesn’t always translate well to a size 14 body.  However, the luxury of shopping from my computer vs. driving to a mall outweighs any negatives.  There’s just one thing I wish they would change.  When I order a garment, I’d like to be told upfront where it’s being produced.  Please tell me it’s coming from China.

TELL ME IT'S MADE IN CHINA, and also being shipped from China
TELL ME IT’S MADE IN CHINA, and that it’s also being shipped from Dongguan CN.

What difference does it make, you ask?  After all, 90% of every thing you buy in brick and mortar stores or online comes from China. But here’s the catch.  Sometimes, the garment you buy is not just made in China, it’s being shipped from China.  Usually, if you order a new top, it will be in your mailbox within a week.  Just in time for the picnic or party you’re planning to attend.  But this doesn’t happen if you’re waiting for something that’s being shipped from 3, 586  miles away.

On May 24, I ordered a top from Amazon, hoping to wear it on Memorial Day.  That did not happen.  I was okay with that, thinking I might wear it at a social event the following week.  Nope, still didn’t come.  Meanwhile, I checked on my order and found the price had been reduced to less than half since I placed my order, but I was still paying the full price.  Shrugged my shulders.  Luck of the draw. Just for fun, I checked my tracking order, and that’s when I found that my poor little top was coming all the way from Dongguan, Guandong CN.    China.

Tracking order info:

Thursday, June 1
10:30 AM
Completed customs clearance.
Chicago, US
6:18 AM
Package left the carrier facility.
Sunday, May 28
12:32 AM
Package arrived at a carrier facility.
Dongguan, GUANGDONG CN
Friday, May 26
Carrier picked up the package.

According to Trip Advisor, Dongguan is a pretty touristy place to visit.  “Places to see,  ways to wander, and signature experiences.”

Unfortunately, I will probably never travel to Dongguan CN.  The  only contact I will have is when I receive a top that was apparently produced and mailed from there.  Amazon has now committed to delivering it by this coming Friday June 17.  That may or may not happen. Here’s the catch. What if it doesn’t fit, or I don’t like it?  How long will it take to return?  One thing I know.  I will not be placing a re order.

When I order something online, please tell me it’s coming from China.

IS IT VANITY OR CHRISTIE’S BLINDSPOT?

It’s no surprise that several Republicans are challenging Donald Trump’s bid for re-election in 2024. However, it’s perplexing to see that former New Jersey Governor Chris Christie is at it again.  How can he possibly believe that the cloud hanging over  the 2013  Bridgegate Scandal will not  continue to follow him?  Maybe he’s hoping that younger voters have never heard about what happened at the Washington Lee Bridge.  But most of us remember the scandal all too clearly.   How can he be so tone deaf? Is it vanity or Christie’s blind spot?

IS IT VANITY OR CHRISTIE'S BLINDSPOT? will Bridgegate and Beachgate be forgotten?
IS IT VANITY OR CHRISTIE’S BLINDSPOT? The 2013 Bridgegate Scandal will continue to haunt him.

There are all kinds of political scandals that didn’t seem to affect a candidate’s electability.  Several  have been accused of sexual abuse, but they got elected anyway. Possibly, because  the misogny in this country  blames the victim of such incidents, rather than the perpetrator.   But in the case of the Bridgegate Scandal, everyone who’s ever been held up for hours in a traffic jam lost respect for Governor Christie.

It all started in 2013 when  Christie was up for re-election in the state of New Jersey.  He asked all of the  Democrat mayors to  support him , but some of them refused.  Consequently, His Deputy Chief of Staff, Bridget Kelly, and David Wilstein, Director of Interstate Travel ,  conspired to  implement a plan of retrubutuion to one mayor in particular..  In an e mail, Bridget Kelly sent a note to  Wilstein , saying “it’s time for a little traffic problem in Fort Lee.”

On Sept 13, 2013  they orderd the closing of 3 traffic lanes on the George Washington Bridge leading out of that mayor’s city, Fort Lee.  The result was bedlam, affecting paramedics, parents with little kids, and countless numbers of people. After several days , the scheme finally came out in the open.  Christie claimed he knew nothing about the lane closings that lasted four days. He  fired his loyal staff members who were held responsible.  They responded that he was a liar , and had  laughed when told about it after two days.

Realistically speaking, it stands to reason that Christie’s staff would not make that move unless they knew he would approve it.  Can you imagine anyone on Mike Pence’s staff coming up with such a scheme? And then,  there was Christie’s  Beachgate debacle.  When the State Parks were all closed in 2017,  he was pictured lolling on the beach at one of the parks while his wife and kids frolicked nearby.

Even though Christie is  a good speaker and apparently was a competent governor, he’s surrounded by a godfather aura.    Former staffers accused him of  fostering a culture of bullying while in office,   Nevertheless,  he’s taking a shot  at getting the Republican nomination for the 2024 Presidental Election.  Is it vanity or Christie’s blind spot that convinces him he could win?   Will voters forget, or will the ghost of Bridgegate continue to haunt him?

SENIORS: BEWARE OF PADDED BILLS

Most of us have heard of blatant senior scams.  Like someone calling to say your grandchild needs bail money.  But there’s another way seniors are taken advantage of, and it’s legal.  It happens when a handyman, lawn service ,tire store  or grocery  clerk “accidentally” overcharges you for goods or services.  Hospitals are notorious for this, but it’s a common practice everywhere. Seniors: Beware of padded bills.

SENIORS: BEWARE OF PADDED BILLS at the grocery store, tire store, and other home care services
SENIORS: BEWARE OF PADDED BILLS. Seniors are especially vulnerable to bad business practices.

Do you check your grocery store receipts?  Some do, but most don’t.  It depends on what else you have to do, or if your printed receipt blew away  as you were walking to your car.  I began checking mine to see how much I’d saved with coupons.  Much to my surprise, I  often found that I’d been charged twice for one  item. Another trick—or mistake—is charging  a set price  for a pound of produce when you’ve only got half a pound.  Once, I confronted the checkout clerk and he insisted that  you can’t buy less than a pound.  Not true.  Took it to the store manager and got my money back.  Since the  clerk had nothing to gain, I attributed the mistakes to laziness or perhaps being in a hurry to get my groceries checked out. Hopefully, it wasn’t a store policy.

It’s hard to find a reliable lawn service.  You may succumb to the lure of someone new to the business knocking on your  door.  Sometimes, these entrepreneurs lack integrity.   Often, their charges are verbal.  “You weren’t here last week, but I mowed your lawn anyway.” After awhile, you get confused as to just how many times they actually did mow your lawn. Don’t let the bill accrue—pay each time and keep  a record of what you paid, and when.   This way, you have proof that you aren’t paying for services that didn’t occur.

Getting a new set of tires for your old car is more complicated than it seems.  Someone has to get down on their knees and find the serial number of the current tires.  Then, they have to search for replacements that will fit.  It turns out there are several “grades” of tires to choose  from.  You decide on the middle price, since you don’t do much interstate travel.  But when you go to pick up the tires, they’ve given you the top grade, and that’s going to cost double.  It’s a hot day, and you’re tired.  They offer to change to the lower grade, but that means waiting  while they exchange the expensive tires for the cheaper ones.  You have a choice: sit and watch daytime television for hours  or pay the higher price and go on.  Did they do this on purpose, thinking a senior would not remember the original price quote?  You’ll never know.

Some of us have small rental properties which need frequent repairs and redecorating as tenants come and go.  Nowadays , handymen are scarce as hens teeth.  You’re apt to fall for anyone who’s willing to do some painting or minor repairs.  You agree upon a price and leave them to do the job.   But when you come back, they say  the job took more time than expected. .  Besides, you had some extra paint left over, so they decided to use it on a room that didn’t need repainting.  You would like to challenge the bill, but who wants to argue with a burly, tattooed guy who now smells of cigarette smoke and beer?  Especially if you’re a little old lady

And then there are the  plumbers in the adjoining county whose hourly charges start from the time they leave their office–not when they start the job. Which may add an extra 45 minutes of labor to your bill.

You get a call from your hearing aid provider that you need an annual hearing test. Turns out they’re offering new, improved products and you’re eligible for a trade in.  Because you can hear so much better with the new aids,  you agree to  the up grade.  However, it turns out  there is no trade in credit..  The price is the same as what you paid four years ago.  You’ve been drawn in under false pretenses, but  who doesn’t want to hear better?  So you cave and buy the new aids at full price.

In some instances, there are things you can do.  You might contact the Federal Trade Commission to file a complaint. about bad business practices.  But  the thought of such a confrontation seems upsetting and stressful.   Seniors: Beware of Padded Bills!

BIDEN & TRUMP FOOLING YOUNG VOTERS

It looks like two elderly men are determined to get themselves elected President of the USA in 2024.   Their respective political parties seem willing to support them. However,   In this divided country, there are a lot of die-hard partisans. Most Democrats and Republicans would rather elect  a wooden chair than either Donald Trump or Joe Biden.  The candidates themselves seem eager to prove themselves not only young at heart , but able and hardy as a 25 year old.   While Trump is younger than Biden, both of them would be octogenarians by the time they finish out their term, if elected.  Unfortunately, Trump & Biden are fooling young voters, who haven’t the faintest idea how it feels to be 80 years old.  

Trump & Biden fooling young voters into believing they don't feel old inside.
TRUMP & BIDEN FOOLING YOUNG VOTERS into believing their age doesn’t matter.

Trump slaps on pancake make up and plays golf.  He’s overweight, but so are a lot of young men and women, so they don’t see that as a problem.  Biden gets a suntan on his beachfront property, stays thin and rides a bicycle, outwardly appearing to be in as good a shape as any thirty something.  What no one knows–until they actually do turn 80– is that their mind may still work, but the body is giving out.

Yes, I know.  80 year old Martha Stewart posed for the cover of Sports Illustrated in a bathing suit.  Carol Burnett says that even though she’s 90, she feels 18 inside.  And they look pretty good, thanks to beauticians, dermatologists, photo shoppers, fitness instructers, cosmetic surgeons and clothing designers.  I’ll give Jane Fonda credit.  She freely admits she’s had to quit drinking because 80 year olds  don’t handle their liquor too well.   We all know of oldsters who swing dance at 90, but they’re a very rare exception.

Many young people today don’t even know an octogenarian.  Their parents may have grown up in a small town, but they went to college and  moved far away from home.  Their children seldom, if ever, see or interact with  elderly grandparents..   They don’t understand the infirmities that come with old age.  As someone once said, “you may look okay from the outside, but you’re not the same on the inside.” .

If Joe Biden is re elected, the country will probably be ruled by behind-the-scenes Democratic handlers. None of whom were  elected.  Which will satisfy those who are more interested in  liberal policies  than who  is in the White House.  Conversely if Trump were elected, the result would be unpredictable and total chaos, depending on his mood of the day.  And yet, he probably would satisfy the conservatives who’ve faithfully followed him through the years.

But the fact of the matter is that both men are way too old to lead our country.  Trump and Biden should stop fooling young voters, and both parties should seek younger candidates.

NEWSPAPER DELIVERY NEARING DEAD END

Do you remember paperboys?  My brother delivered morning newspapers during the WWII years, following the great depression.  Most women didn’t work, and money was scarce. Buddy’s paper route was a source of much needed cash.  Not for household expenses, but for extras like a bicycle.  He often provided his baby sister (me) with treats like Eskimo Pies. He sometimes bought me new shoes. Decades later, during a  recession, my son took a paper route for the very same reasons.  But during the 90’s, adults took over those paper routes as they became more lucrative and teenagers could work at McDonalds’.  Nowadays, there’s hardly anyone who wants such a low end job, so newspaper delivery is nearing a dead end.

Newspaper Delivery Nearing a Dead End and we will miss the paperboys.
NEWSPAPER DELIVERY NEARING A DEAD END. We miss the beloved paperboys.

Reading the newspaper with your morning coffee is a special treat.  Especially if you’re still in your pajamas.   The newspaper has something for everyone: local news, editorials, international news, comic strips, advice columns ,  supermarket ads.  It starts the day off right, and life feels more satisfying  as you go about your business.  Unfortunately,  those days are fading into a distant memory.  Why? Because there’s a labor shortage, and jobs with better hours and more pay are readily available.

The decline started gradually a couple of years ago, when our local newspaper went to 5 days a week. Then, we noticed the Indianapolis newspaper often wasn’t delivered to our door.  Yes, we were newspaper junkies, wanting the luxury of reading a big city newspaper. But they were often late getting here, so we were supposed to read the news online, instead.  However,  reading the news on the computer isn’t nearly as satisfying as holding a paper in your hand, putting it down to take a sip of coffee and rest your eyes, going back and forth between the obituaries and the classifieds.

Yesterday, we received a letter informing us that the INDY Star will no longer be delivered to our door. It will come via the US Postal Service, which means It will arrive somewhere between 10:30 a. m at the earliest, and  5 p.m. if they’re running late.  That will never be the same as having it delivered to  our door each morning.  Especially for seniors who don’t care to navigate the internet.  Newspaper Delivery is nearing  a dead end,

THERE’S ALWAYS A LITTLE GLITCH

Whenever you’re striving for perfection, something usually  goes wrong.  As an example, King Charles of England was upset before the coronation ceremonies, because Prince William and his family were late.  Which meant they couldn’t start the procession on time.  According to the lip readers, Charles III got pretty upset and said  “it’s always something.”  He was right about that.  And for a man who wants his shoe laces ironed, this was difficult to handle.  The trouble is, there’s always a little glitch.

There's Always a Little Glitch. The kids were late to the parade.
THERE’S ALWAYS A LITTLE GLITCH. The coronation didn’t start on time because the kids were late.

Supposing Prince Harry had spilled some coffee down the front of his morning coat and all over his beautiful white shirt.  Since his outfit was provided by the French designer, Dior, I’m sure they were prepared for just such a glitch.  You can bet they had a backup outfit waiting in the wings, just in case.  On the other hand,  queen Camilla had two ladies standing behind her as emergency backups.  One was her sister, and the other, a body double. So if Camilla conked out for any reason, the other lady could take her place, and hopefully, most people wouldn’t know the difference.   It pays to prepare ahead.

The trouble is, we common folk can’t always plan for a backup.  What if a button comes off your blouse before a job interview?  Or you get a flat tire on the way to pick up your child from daycare?  There’s an old saying, whatever can go wrong, will. But instead of trying to be prepared for any emergency (back up blouse, spare tire) it’s probably best to train yourself to stay calm when things go wrong.  This is so much easier said than done.  Whenever my sister and I  had a last minute clothing mishap, our mother would say, “It’ll never be seen on a galloping horse.”

It seems to me that the only way to get through the ups and downs in this life is by  lessons learned through meditation. Note it, name it, deal with it.   Say you’re angry, upset, nervous, or whatever negative emotion follows one of these little glitches.  Observe those feelings, then take a few deep breaths.   You may not be able to change things, but you can change the way you react to what’s gone wrong.   After you’ve calmed down, you may come to the conclusion that the situation is far less catastrohpic than you thought. Did it matter if the Coronation procession was a few minutes late?  Was it worth it for Charles III to get himself worked up about William and Kate  not showing up on time?   I would doubt if anyone in the crowd knew the difference.

Just remember, there’s always a little glitch.

 

FREE BOOK TAKES YOU TO BOCA CHICA

When Elon Musk’s space rocket blew up last week, it was pretty  upsetting for the folks near  Boca Chica Village.  It rained dust, sand and debris all over everything within 100 miles or more in South Texas.   Not too many  years ago, my husband and I used to hang out on the beach at Boca Chica.  It was wild,  upspoiled and utterly exhilarating.   Still in a pristine state, there wasn’t even a public restroom.  But there were plenty of sand dunes where you could go when nature called.  We  loved that place so much that I used it as a setting for a dramatic episode toward the end of my novel, “Chasing Their Losses” .  Would you  like to know what that sleepy village was like before it morphed into the SpaceX  Space Station?   If so, I’m offering a free kindle book that takes you to Boca Chica. The offer starts today, May 3 through May 4. Get it on amazon @   http://amzn.to/2cLBl0Y

FREE BOOK TAKES YOU TO BOCA CHICA where Elon Musk's SpaceX is located now
FREE BOOK TAKES YOU TO BOCA CHICA, before it became SpaceX

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When Tony’s stepson vanishes under her watch, Cara must fight for her life, her reputation, and her career.

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At the heart of this novel are four damaged people: John and Cara, whose intense relationship is clouded by painful memories and fear of commitment; Tony and his second wife, Gail, who gave up everything for passion and desire,  only to find disillusion and heartbreak.

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