SHOULD WOMEN RULE?

In the golden age of comic books, Wonder Woman was my idol.  She was  a feminist before the term was even invented.  I worshiped  her beauty, strength and resilience.  And somewhere, a seed was planted in my mind that Amazons like Wonder Woman should rule the world.  But as I grew into adulthood, that idea was replaced by the realities of early 20th century attitudes. Women were seen as the weaker sex, and somehow inferior.   The higher paying occupations  were dominated  by men. Most of my female  colleagues became teachers and nurses after graduating from college. Women have come a long way from that mentality.

Wonder Woman was a feminist
SHOULD WOMEN RULE?

Psychologists have noted numerous ways that men and women are different.   Men are risk takers, and apt to over estimate their ability.  Women are sensitive and more empathetic.  Perhaps the  most important difference is that men thrive on conflict, while women tend to avoid it.   These are generalities, of course.  We all know people of both sexes who don’t fit the stereotype.  But sometimes,  I think mankind would be better off if women did rule the world.  There would surely be fewer wars, more kindness, and  common sense.  Women have always kept men’s grandiose ideas and plans in check.

The midterm election gave me a lot of hope because  more women ran for office, and won, than ever before in our history.  We now have 100 women in Congress!

But do we  want to go back to the time when one gender ruled our country?     My thought is that if we  want our governing bodies to represent the entire United States, we should have a 50/50 ratio of men and women in both the House and the Senate. That might be just as important as a balance between Democrats and Republicans.

Don’t worry, guys. Women are never  going to rule the world.  But it wouldn’t be so bad if they did.

RICH, SPICY, PERSIMMON PUDDING

Persimmon Pudding is a holiday favorite here in the Midwest.  Years ago, it was difficult to find persimmon pulp, unless you were lucky enough to know someone with a persimmon tree.  And squeezing the persimmons to separate the skins and seeds from the fruit, then pushing all of  it a through a sieve, was a chore.  What a culinary triumph to serve rich, spicy  persimmon pudding on Thanksgiving Day!

A culinary deight
PERSIMMON PUDDING FOR THANKSGIVING

We used to buy persimmon pulp at a little country store where they kept it in a freezer, and sold out almost the day it came in.  The first time I bought the pulp, I asked the owner,  an old man in bib overalls, if he had a favorite recipe. He looked at me for a moment and said, “just wait here a minute.”  Whereupon he ambled to his house next door, and came back with a xerox copy of this recipe. It’s similar to what they served at the Parke County Covered Bridge Festival for years until the ladies who  made it “retired.”

Persimmon pulp is now available in most upscale grocery stores.  You can even order it over the internet.  It’s a bit pricey compared to the good old days, but it sure beats looking for a persimmon tree and spending all day making pulp.

Persimmons are a spicy delicious fruit
It’s easy , now that you can buy ready made persimmon pulp

Not everyone likes persimmon pudding, but for those that do, it’s a rare treat, especially when served with whipped cream.  There are other persimmon recipes that give you a dessert with  the texture of a brownie or cake, so you might look those up on the internet if you think you would like that better.

PERSIMMON PUDDING

2 cups persimmon pulp

½  cup melted butter

1 cup milk

1 cup half and half (it’s okay to use milk)

2 eggs

1 tsp. baking powder

½ tsp salt

½ tsp nutmeg

1  1/2 cups flour

1 tsp baking soda

1 tsp cinnamon

1 tsp  allspice

 

Mix pulp, eggs.  sugar, melted butter and milk.  Mix dry ingredients separately.  Then combine both mixtures. Stir well. Pour into greased 9 X 13 inch pan and bake for one hour at 325 degrees.  Stir several times while pudding is baking so that it won’t harden at edges of pan.

 

MIDTERM ELECTION DRAMA

Midterms used to be boring elections.  Lucky to have 20% turnout.  That’s all changed now.  People have flocked to early voting sites in record numbers in my state of Indiana.  So,  we should be prepared for some Midterm Election Drama.

Emotions are running hot and high.  Whatever happens, some people are going to be very mad.  Personally, I always feel sorry for the people who lose, even if it’s partly my fault if I didn’t vote for them.  Think of all the time, money, effort, and emotion that goes into running for office.  Most of us wouldn’t go through it.  So, you have to respect anyone who runs for office in these volatile times. They could be risking their life.

winners & losers in the midterms
US electoral politics

The people who garner the most sympathy from me are the families of the losing candidates.  Maybe they didn’t really want their mom/dad/sister/brother/spouse to run at all.  But they were sucked into all the drama, whether they liked it or not.  Now, The kids have to face the embarrassment when they go back to school on Wednesday or Thursday.  I think it must be harder on them than the grown ups.  But there has to be a lot of tears on pillows for everyone.

The winners, of course, are ecstatic.  All their  hard work and determination paid off!  Their families are proud, and they feel like they’re all set.  But really, it’s not going to be that great for them.  Whereas the losers are soon out of public scrutiny and forgotten, the winners are going to face protests, nasty editorials, hate mail, and all kinds of ill will from the losing party.   You have to be tough as a boot, with nerves of steel, to shrug all that off and keep going with a smile on your face.

And so, in anticipation of Tuesday night, I offer my sincere sympathy to the losers, and heartfelt congratulation to the winners.  All of you fought the good fight.  It’s what democracy is all about.

THE ANNUAL LADYBUG INVASION.

Why do we forget about ladybugs until it’s too late?  It happens every year.  We finally had our first frost in Indiana, and the fall colors began to brighten our landscape.  The days were cool, the air crisp and clear.   And then, hot weather returned, bringing The Annual Ladybug Invasion.

Ladybugs come in all colors
BROWN LADYBUG

According to pest control experts, if you wait until ladybugs attach themselves to your house and windows, it’s too late.  You’re supposed to spray the southern  side of your house BEFORE they decide they want a warm place to spend the winter.  My husband’s computer is next to  a  glass door  leading to the deck.  Here, the ladybugs find some thin  opening and manage to crawl inside.  He sits with a fly swatter, batting away all afternoon.

If we open the door, it’s worse.  Swarms of lady bugs fly inside.  And don’t let anyone tell you they don’t bite.  Most of them don’t,  but some do, and we have the little red bite marks to prove it.  And their carcasses stink.  That’s why a lot of people call them stink bugs.  They need a lot of moisture to survive, and  after they get into your dry house during the winter, they die.  We use a hand vacuum to scoop up the dead ladybugs, but then they stink again.

There  must be something good about ladybugs.  Here’s what I found on the internet:  Ladybugs feed on aphids and other soft bodied insects that feed on plants. One ladybug can eat as many as 50 aphids a day.

Aphids are especially hard on roses.  In fact, some shops sell ladybugs to gardeners, who release them at a certain time of day to gobble up the aphids.  I don’t think we’re going to buy any.  I’ll take a can of rose spray to a box of ladybugs, any day. .